Unlike the ever- burning Olympic flame (absent of protesters, that is), the spark of infatuation doesn’ t easily stay lit. The aspects that initially made your relationship exciting– the novelty, the mystery, the anticipation– are going to be virtually…

I love your point, but don’t you think that women need men as much as men need women?…

I don’t know about that. I don’t think it has anything to do with the personal sexuality, more so as the person level to be open. Just like straight men can go around and cheat on their spouse or gf, so too can any group, including the bi male. Ask your friend, does she think he’s a cheater? Because that is the issue. If she was dating a straight man, would she worry about him cheating on her with another woman? Seems she’s the one with the issues and low self-esteem, if she’s worried about something that hasn’t happened yet. Focus on the love and the commit the partnership brings and not the other’s body parts.

Adrienne, BSN

“They will Never be Satisfied with Just Me” – great point. When I told a friend of mine that I was bi she said that she thought her bf was very bi curious and that bothered her alot. She told me that she could NOT date a bi or bi curious guy because she felt that even though she could satisfy him to the best of her ability she was afraid that she could not satisfy his needs. He will always seek out more – like another man.

I told her that if its just the penis he is seeking that she can always buy a strap on. Her could not do that plus she thought it would still not satisfy him.

Since this conversation I’ve heard that from many women. I guess it is a common feeling but is it a common problem among bi men? In order for a bi man to have a successful marriage, does he need to be married to a bi woman?