Bi Social Network, I think I’m bisexual. I’m in love with my boyfriend, but I’ve always had crushes on women. Now, all of a sudden, I have fallen for this woman whom I was sure was gay (and my boyfriend gave me the green light to experiment), only to learn that she’s straight…or at least, closeted. I can’t stop thinking about her, and I’m pissed at her for leading me on. But I’m also so madly in love with her, it hurts to think about her. I’d love some guidance.

I think I'm bisexual. I'm in love with my boyfriend, but I've always had crushes on women. Now, all of a sudden, I have fallen for this woman whom I was sure was gay (and my boyfriend gave me the green light to experiment), only to learn that she's straight...or at least, closeted. I can't stop thinking about her, and I'm pissed at her for leading me on. But I'm also so madly in love with her, it hurts to think about her. I'd love some guidance.

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I’m assuming you are female? Did she lead your on or is still confused about herself? If someone doesn’t know who they are, how can they tell you?

Also regarding your boyfriend, did he give you the green light to fall in love or just have experimentation? Have you both talked about all the issues this will bring? Is it an open thing, a one time thing? A poly thing? A thing where only you have, he doesn’t know, knows, watches, not watches… lot of things to discuss..

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