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I remember a story about a man who wanted to be the king of the world.  This man, we will call him Harry, believed from a very young age that he would one day be famous.  So famous that when he walked down the street, there would be a multitude chanting his name and demanding he tell them what he wanted so they could fulfil his every wish. Sadly, this desire was never to be. You see, Harry lacked the one ingredient that was needed in order to be king; he lacked the confidence to believe he was a king whether or not the people demanded he act like it.

Sometimes we find ourselves backed into a corner with no way out.  When we are placed in this situation, we may resort to the primal instincts of fight or flight, and in some cases, both may be the right answer. The trouble is which right answer will get you out of the predicament that has so cleverly snared you?  Left or right, up or down, fight or….. You get the picture.  What is the right answer, which do I chose? Continue reading »