Bi Talk Radio ‘Undesirable Elements: Secret Survivors’

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(Credit Image) "Secret Survivors" produced by Ping Chong & Company

Bi Social Network interviewed Sara Zatz (Associate Director), Amita Swadhin (Project Coordinator, Activist, Cast Member, GLAAD) and Lucia Leandro Gimeno (Survivor) from Ping Chong & Company, on sexual abuse and the unique experiences we face with this very taboo topic within all communities.

Swadhin and Gimeno give us a personal point-of-view on the lives of people of color inside the bisexual and transgender communities, who were sexuality abused and the issues surrounding the family and how more awareness and discussions need to be shared.

Help Fund This Project!

The company is trying to raise the funds needed for this documentary project in the amount of $20,000. They have already risen close to $8,000 on Indie GoGo at www.indiegogo.com | SecretSurvivors. If sexual abuse has impacted your life or you want to help bring more awareness—please donate and support their efforts by giving $10 dollars or more. All proceeds are tax deductible, as Ping Chong & Company is a non-profit theatre Company.

To learn more, visit the websites on Ping Chong & Company and facebook.

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Who’s the Girl In the Relationship You Ask?

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I find it fascinating how many minorities fight against stereotypes while simultaneously denying they even exist. Being African American and bisexual, I have seen it on both sides. Well one common stereotype is that in gay and lesbian relationships one partner often takes on the role of the traditional wife or woman and one takes on the more masculine husband role. In other words some ask who is the girl in the relationship or rather who the more girly one is. A study was conducted on gay men and how sexual and physical preferences particularly as it relates to being the totally penetrative (top) partner and totally receptive (bottom) partner in sex. This content is for members only.

The 396 volunteers for the study were recruited from gay.com and were asked to fill out an online questionnaire in terms of sexual preference in terms of position. The options were the following:

  1. Only Bottom
  2. Versatile, but prefer Bottom
  3. Versatile, equal
  4. Versatile, but prefer Top
  5. Only Top
  6. Never had anal sex / Don’t Know

10.90 percent identified as total bottoms, 26.80 percent identified as versatile bottoms, 20 percent identified as totally versatile, 22.50 percent identified as versatile but preferred topping and 11.60 percent identified as total tops. The researchers found “the data showed that while most gay men preferred men who were around their age, gay men who identified as Only Bottoms prefer significantly older men than Only Tops.” Oddly enough, they found the same trend in height preferences, total tops preferred significantly shorter men while total bottoms preferred significantly taller men than tops. Continue reading »

Our Quest for Love in a Racialized Society

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Here I am on another lonely night messaging people from my area and all around the country on another white dominated so called social networking site. Here I am seemingly endlessly reading profiles, giving compliments and throwing out the line, “I’m looking for friends and hopefully a partner” all to no avail. I also love how the site shows me how many people have looked at my profile and also the most viewed people on the site just to see the comparison. Nonetheless, I find it ironic that on the one black bisexual, gay, lesbian and transgender social networking site I’m on I receive literally 20 times as many messages and friend requests that I’ve received on all of the five or six majority white sites I’ve been on. Even on the so called mainstream sites I notice how the vast majority of people who message me end up being my same race when the vast majority of people I messaged are not. This was one puzzle in my recent love life and social life that has made me ask the following question; “How can one community seem to recognize my worth and attractiveness and another group almost unanimously find me not worthy of even a hello?” This content is for members only.

Turns out our race and even our sex, sexual orientation, and gender identity effects whom enters into our social circle. Oh what a surprise! I’m being sarcastic but I am also genuinely surprised in 2011 many people even many bi, lesbian, gay and transgender people still base who they will interact with based on their skin color. For me it turns out almost all of the white people I’ve met chose not to either respond to me or call me back or really put me in their inner circle. This first became apparent to me in college, when I noticed how the majority of people I would talk to were white because most people at the school are white—yet only the African American’s seemed to ask for my number, call me back, or even invite me out. Both groups seemed to really like me and laugh at my jokes but for the most part only one group was open to bringing me in their inner circle.

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LGBT Pride Month at the White House (Video)

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Bi Social Network Founder, Adrienne Williams was invited to the White House for the LGBT Pride Month Reception celebration. Check out the video and the excitement.


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What the Bisexual Community Should Learn From the Gay Community

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How Can Bisexuals Connect? (image: istock.com)Two years ago my life was so different, from social and work life, to donations and sponsorships. I got a taste of what I’ve been missing, some good, some indifferent. One of the great things that I need to do again is network. The gay and lesbian community continues to shine is this area—and the question has to be WHY not us?

I received an invite from Rev. Kevin Downer of aChurch4Me? MCC to go outside my comfort zone and attend a donor’s appreciation event—giving by Lambda Legal. They are in the fight of their lives on many fronts of equality, from same-sex marriage, to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights in the work place; to LGBT custody battles.

At first, because it’s been so long mixing and mingling with lawyers, doctors, PR heads and the occasion model, I began to get my sea legs back and decided to go meet this wonderful speaker by the name of Zach Wahls. The famous 19-year old son from Iowa who made an impassioned speech about same-sex rights to marry—using his personal experience about his two moms. (See Video Below).
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Adrienne Williams, Founder of Bi Social Network Selected For ‘GLAAD’ National Media Institute for People of Color

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Adrienne Williams, Founder & Producer, New Media
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Founder of Bi Social Network Selected for National Media Institute for People of Color and the bisexuals community

April 23, 2011—Bi Social Network is proud to announce Adrienne Williams has been selected to represent the ‘b’ in the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community to showcase fair and accurate representation of bisexuals in media by the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) new program for the National Media Institute for People of Color, spearheaded by the Arcus Foundation, a foundation that donates to non-profit organizations who support lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender human rights.

Williams received the news on Wednesday, April 20 from GLAAD via phone and email, while present at the Chicago Commission on Human Relations’ Advisory Council on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Issues; which just  endorsed “The Bisexual Invisibility: Impacts and Recommendations” report for bisexuals in Chicago.

Williams started Bi Social Network in December of 2008 and has worked to spotlight bisexual visibility in entertainment, printed news media and new online media outlets. Bi Social Network also started a yearlong campaign called ‘I am Visible,’ to speak to bisexuals that they matter in the community of LGBT rights and acceptance, using video, imagery and personal stories.

This is a great time for the bisexual community and people with diverse backgrounds to be heard and work and come together. We need to present more diversity in media whether bisexual stories, transgender persons or presenting a wealth of different people in our community, we rarely get to see or can be missing in the LGBT community. With this opportunity comes responsibility and I will take this time to reflect on the challenges needed to move bisexual visibility forward. Though, I don’t consider myself an activist by any means, I see myself as one voice for entertainment media and to help share the message we have been trying to present to all.  I hope the role I’m given will be the start of moving onward –Adrienne Williams, Founder of Bi Social Network

The POC Media Training Institute event kicks off on Friday, July 22-24 in Los Angeles, which selected a handful of candidates from applications submitted. They’ll prepare participates for media development, coaching, on-camera and radio interviews and ongoing leadership roles in the community.

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About Bi Social Network:
Bi Social Network is the first interactive bisexual Network, dealing with entertainment, sexuality, social events and community. We are particularly focusing on bisexual men, women, teens and social issues surrounding the myths (biphobia) of bisexuality in the gay, lesbian and straight communities. Topics will range in the area of social, entertainment (pop culture) and social events and community, regarding our sexuality in an informational, educational and enriching way.

We also will be the hub of bisexual events across the nation in the form of workshops, networking events and social entertainment.

entertainment. sexuality. sociability. community. is Bi Social Network.

‘I am Visible’ Campaign
The ‘I am Visible’ campaign is about making a difference in the lives of the bisexual community. Though, we feel we are part of the gay, lesbian, transgender, and straight communities, we also know that there has been a high level of intolerance of late—particularly in our gay and lesbian communities in print, Web, entertainment, politics, and social media. We are here to tell our stories.

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Phase 2: ‘I am Visible’ Campaign Kicks Off with Paul Fitzgerald (Video)

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If you’ve been wondering, “when is Bi Social Network going to start the video phase of the bi visibility campaign—wait no longer. ‘I am Visible,’ kicks off with our favorite bisexual actor, director, oh the list goes on. That’s the point right? Bisexuals we’re everywhere; in every place, profession, or walk of life and it’s all good.

What’s your story? Do you have one? Join ‘I am Visible’ and tell the world you care about bisexual visibility. Tell media you want to be seen not erased, or better yet, show them, frame by frame. It’s that simple. Continue reading »

Special Guest: Arizona’s Kyrsten Sinema chats with Bi Social Network on Politics (Podcast)

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Kyrsten Sinema is running for State Senate in Arizona (Credit: http://www.ksinema.org)

***Update: Listen to Kyrsten Sinema on our podcast below, on issues that are affecting her state of Arizona and beyond. We discussed issues on immigration, President Obama on DADT, the issues on jobs, creating more jobs, and new technology moving forward—along with education and what the democrats are really doing to help middle class families.

Kyrsten Sinema, State Representative running for State Senate, joins Bi Social Network for a short chat on Bi Talk Radio on politics and what matters in the 2010 Mid-term election in Arizona and across the United States.

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Sinema serves as the Assistant Leader to the Democratic Caucus in the House of Representatives and represents central Phoenix in the Arizona Legislature District 15. Serving her third year, she is the ranking Democrat on the House Appropriations Committee and the ranking Democrat on the House Judiciary Committee. She also serves on the House Military Affairs and Public Safety Committee. Sinema has just been named “40 under 40″ in Time Magazine, as the new leaders and “rising stars of American politics” and she’s a major advocate on BLGT and civil rights.

We will also share some insights on what is going on all around the nation as politics heats up in key areas on jobs, unemployment, civil rights and the economy.

Please listen to this podcast after 7:30 p.m. Central Time, for all things politics.

Note: Due to Sinema’s very busy election schedule, we will only be able to talk for a short time, but let’s hope we can get her back on Bi Talk Radio after the elections.

Kyrsten holds both a law degree and a Master’s degree in Social Work from Arizona State University, and is currently pursuing her Ph.D. in the School of Justice and Social Inquiry at ASU.  She is an adjunct professor in the School of Social Work at ASU and practices law when not in session.  Kyrsten also serves as faculty for the Center for Progressive Leadership, teaching tomorrow’s community leaders about the political process.

Kyrsten Sinema has worked on initiatives in Arizona and around the country for a number of years, and in 2006 chaired Arizona Together, the first and only successful effort in the country to defeat a same-sex marriage ballot initiative.  In 2008, she chaired Protect Arizona’s Freedom, the coalition that defeated Ward Connerly’s effort to place an initiative on the state ballot to eliminate equal opportunity programs.  She continues to consult with political groups around the nation on electoral and legislative strategy.

Representative Sinema was chosen last year as one of 32 state lawmakers nationwide, and the only legislator from Arizona, for the White House Health Reform Task Force.  As a member of the Task Force, Sinema has worked with Arizonans to help shape national health reform so that middle-class families can have access to quality and affordable health care.  The historic passage of health reform in Congress was signed into law on Tuesday, March 23rd 2010.

Kyrsten serves on numerous community and national boards, including People for the American Way, Board President of Community Outreach and Advocacy for Refugees, the YWCA of Maricopa County, the Center for Progressive Leadership, and the Young Elected Officials’ Network.  Kyrsten is the recipient of awards for her political leadership, including the NAACP Civil Rights Award, AZ Hispanic Community Forum Friend of the Year, Planned Parenthood Legislative CHOICE Award, Sierra Club’s Most Valuable Player, and the AZ Public Health Association Legislator of the Year.

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