The eHarmany Bisexual Debate at the ‘New York Times’

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Got to love the hidden meaning surrounding the New York Times’ Opinion piece of “True Love for Everyone,” by Daniel Hamermesh, when he ends his article on the note: So this seems like a standard economics example of most people facing a small loss, with a few — bi-sexuals in this case — reaping a substantial gain.

So just to catch everyone up on this little news. eHarmony, the makers of straight love, (how I hate that site) had once upon a time—two sites for straight and the BLGT community. But seems someone was upset and sued and won the case. Now, eHarmany has no other choice but to merge the two service fees, eh, I mean sites into one! Good news right? Well turns out folks are talking outside the side of their neck of who benefits, the LGT community or more of the bisexuals! Let’s listen in shall we?

Are bisexuals really so indifferent between a long-term relationship with a man and a long-term relationship with a woman that they’d audition people of both sexes? Seriously, I don’t know the answer to that question … but the indifference seems strange to me. Maybe in dating they’d be willing to try either, but for a long-term relationship? — Phil

Where the bisexuals are at a disadvantage is that they may be seeking twice as many partners. (Two instead of one). So they deserve the break since they have a more complicated livestyle, right? Maybe they need two simultaenous long term relationships. — Dan

“bisexual people benefit alot”- this isn’t code, is it?  — frankenduf

Dan: “Where the bisexuals are at a disadvantage is that they may be seeking twice as many partners.” You are confusing bisexuality with polyamory. — KarenS

I’m not a practicing bisexual, but it automatically doubles my chances of a date on a Saturday night.” -Woody Allen — Alex

Just for the record Daniel, the use of the word ‘bisexuals’ is just one word—not with a dash—but being bi—perhaps we need the distinction! Oh, how much work there’s still left to do—from media and the general public!

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Adrienne Williams, Founder and Producer of Bi Social Network (AJW Media), the first entertainment, interactive bisexual network dealing with sexuality for the bisexual community. Adrienne started a yearlong project in 2011 to promote the 'I am Visible' Campaign to stop biphobia and bi erasure. Adrienne was invited to the White House by President Barack Obama to the LGBT Reception in June of 2011—interviewed on Chicago Progressive Talk Radio hosted by Stephanie Miller, featured in the Chicago Tribune (RedEye), Associated Press, Connextions Magazine, Windy City Times, The Bilerico Project and selected for the 2011 GLAAD National Media Institute for People of Color to promote bi inclusion and visibility.

Comments

  1. Maria M says:

    Well said! Thanks for writing about this!

  2. The Rants of the Bisexual has much to write about this week! Stay-tuned! :-)

  3. Peter Ruggiero says:

    This is surreal! Being bisexual is sometimes like having a life scripted by Kafka. What are these people going on about? If we just break down the language, there’s no logic to be had. It’s all emotional reasoning.

  4. Carrie says:

    I’m a little confused by the conversation i think. it doesn’t seem to go anywhere

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